I should say that it is not my intention to change the way people view strippers and our industry. I will try not to give any motivational, inspirational speeches because I find that when watching tv, this is precisely the time when I want to change the channel. All I can do is offer insight in the context of my own experiences, as honestly as I can manage. It’s not always easy.

When I started this blog it was just to have a laugh. But I’ve found that things pour out of me I can’t and don’t want to control. Sometimes my face is streaming with tears as I write and I don’t quite have the courage to publish for a while. Other times I am pissing my pants laughing and can barely wait to share. As strippers, exotic dancers, teasers and pleasers, we are often given an amazing insight into the lives of perfect strangers. For some reason, they trust us with things they may never have dared to tell anyone else. This can be a privilege or a burden. I choose to view it as a gift.

The gift still doesn’t cancel out how ridiculous most people can be though….and I intend to protect their identities while exposing their idiocy. I can’t remember half their names anyway.

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  1. Hi Billie

    Thanks for the chat tonight (and for giving Ted a dance) and for the recommendation to listen to Anita O’Day. I have listened and learned. She is good and I realise I have listened to her before. Her version of Sweet Georgia Brown is stellar. That Old Felling and Fly me to the moon.. Well awesome. In fact u look a little like herπŸ˜‰ I am not totally joking either

    Hope u have a good one and hope to see you around (though u may not see me in CMC anytime soon unless they have a blues night in which case I hope to see u there and hear u (u sing right?))




  2. I have so much to say but for now I just want to let you know that I really like your writing. Simple to the point, very poetic at the same time. I feel some melancholy in you but also a strong positive character. I like you! Please don’t ever give up, stay strong.
    Merci tes mots sont comfortables et tristes au meme temps.


    • This is one of the nicest comments I’ve had so far. Thank you so much and I’m glad you think you like me! I have a melancholy disposition of late but it’s not my natural state of being I promise! Would love to hear more of your thoughts in future. You made me feel great with this one. Merci yourself xX


  3. I was intrigued to read your blog after finding you. Without sounding naive or even questioning your abilities, I was suddenly submerged in the depth of your stories to the point of riding the waves of emotions you put into them. It was a fantastic read and wanted to say how excited I was to stumble upon your efforts.

    Hope you’re smiling Ben


    • Hi Ben, I’m not very good at receiving compliments so responding to these is always a little awkward for me. All i can say is thank you for everything you said (including in the unedited version). It’s really so awesome to get genuine comments like yours on here. Thanks heaps X


  4. I read your blog as i stumbled upon it and I’m left feeling puzzeled . I feel some what naive as i have been the person in a strip joint pissed and having fun I’ve not ever abused the Orr seeing a beautiful woman dancing naked . Here i heard this song yesterday and then i thought of you last night i dont even know you and this is abit weird but but i dedicate this song to you .urthboy covers meg mac on jjj like a version hΓ ve a listen and find some joy X


    • I’m down in Sorrento having some time out to be healthy and write. Just got your message. Thank you so much. It’s strange that strangers send me things: songs, pictures, clothing and as my friend who’s sitting with me now said, even stranger how much I care about these things coming at me from people I’ll most likely never meet. I watched the clip. It made me really happy. Thank you. I’ll post a snippet on my Instagram and FB


  5. I have read 3 of your articles now and rarely have I experienced such a varied emotional response to some writing. What a gift you have! I’m going to go back and read them all from the beginning and I’m going to spread the word on Facebook. Looking forward to reading some more and I hope all is going well for you!


  6. Your honesty, wit & wisdom, are:refreshing & imaginatively enjoyable. You’re clever and entertaining, fun to read.
    Brain stimulation via amazingly accurate analagies flowing intelligently around semi saucey story lines. πŸ™πŸ½
    while high risk possibility of stimulating brain- freeze, a lΓ  ice cream headache : a spoon in shining armor has hatched within βœ…πŸ‘€πŸ΄( no spoon emoji )


  7. Entertained. Amused. Intriguinging and encouraging πŸ™πŸΌ
    This spoon is dusting off his shining armour suit with wooing intentions.
    Seeking cellulite city coordinates ?


  8. Hi,
    I’ve never really been one for reading blogs and stuff before.
    Now that I’ve started, I’m hooked.
    Your narrative style is captivating.
    Please continue your fantastic literary work


  9. Wow.. I stumbled across your blog while bored at work, and I must say I haven’t been able to stop reading.. Such sadness and sorrow mixed in with random funny moments. You have an excellent way of expressing your feelings and your story which is very absorbing.
    Keep up the great work!!


  10. Your blog is a credit to you and all in your industry! I could not begin to imagine what you would go through on a daily basis and because of your thoughts we might be able begin to understand. To think that men still in this day and age will feel it’s okay to behave this way disappoints me to no end.

    I will continue to read your work and could only imagine the difference it could make if all those guilty of the thing they put you through were to read this and realise it was them.
    Wouldn’t that be a nice thought!


  11. Love your honesty and bluntness. It’s a shame that men feel the need to degrade someone who is simply entertaining them. They should be grateful and respectful. (as we all should in every facet of our lives). stay well – stay safe, and stay creative!


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